I want an exciting life
A life stretched to its fullest potential
Used to what it was created to achieve
God has a destiny for me
I believe communication is the key to successful relationships
And relationships is the key to life
Without love, all this will be impossible
I value a friend above performance
My close friends must be people who are committed to progress
They must have a proven character
They are people of integrity
They must be people with Big dreams and actions just as big
HAHA
Now, here's something new on my blog. my want list!
I figured that I should start wanting stuff and ejoying my life. Fed up with always compromising.
So here goes.
WANTS(needs in fact)
~ 2 new good zildjian crash cymbals (got 1 already!)
~ iron cobra double pedal
~ new tama full drumset
~ clavinova electric piano
~ fender bass amp ~ super good pair of in-ear earphones ~ new leatherback nkjv (slightly smaller than A4) size Bible
~ GTA San Andreas
~ GTA 4
~ New fast laptop ~ Car with petrol paid for
~ Maybach Exelero *find out more* It costs USD 8million
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Friday, May 23, 2008
ALRIGHT. since gin asked, i will blog a post. haha
updates since the last post.
I'm not officially 21. had a great celebration, to me, with my family, relatives, destiny friends, and all sorts of other friends at the bbq and chalet, and home events. recieved lots of cool presents, thanks everyone.
then immediately I flew in the A380 to sydney for a little holiday, and exploration. It was indeed a smooth take off, smooth flight, BUT. an extremely HARD landing. so hard that we thought the plane was going to break in half or something. literally, BAM! the flight back was better. not much of a problem at all. it was an enlighting experience with the people, culture, food, sights and other things. great food there btw. =P
then back from aussie, i have had several things, such as to get my graduation attire, get my international licence, go for NS medical checkups, which i still have several more to go through because of some complications.
And of course, also to go out with a really special friend. =D
So, thats all the updates. Msn message me for more enquries. =)
You won! 12:32 AM
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
I really wonder who still visits my blog. haha.
but nevertheless I'm still going to blog, because it's my 21st birthday tomorrow!!!!
man, its such a new experience for me, like I'm really being moved out of my family's covering for the very first time. Although I will still be living in the same house, but I will be seen more as an adult individual. Seems scary as it may be, to face a world of still unknowns, for the many years ahead, but still, i'm thankful for having a friend many years older than I am, that has helped me through this last few days of my parent's dependence, into an adulthood. his name is David Theophillus. bringing me to learn many things, and teach me how to connect to the source of the rest of my life, that is Jesus. So that I can fully live out God's calling and purpose for my life.
Of course, my parents have also done incredibly well over all these years, i'm thankful to them with my life.
So, 21, here I come, just a few more hours to go! Lord, keep me safe.
You won! 4:00 AM
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Exciting days ahead! :)
my birthday is within weeks! 2 to be exact! And I'm excited because it's my 21st!
10th Apr!!!
I will be holding a chalet at hopefully Sentosa, with BBQ to celebrate on 11 - 12 apr. Lemme know if you're interested to come ok! I'll be bugging you soon.
And another thing is, right after my birthday, I'm gonna fly off to Aussie! HAHA! such fun!
You won! 5:41 AM
Monday, March 24, 2008
It has been an exhausting 3 weeks. Pst greg from aussie came down foe 2 weeks to teach a course and minister. way cool! then during the night, there's food and stuff for us. for me, i had a personal lesson on journaling. but all these were not held far from my place, thank God. just at the salvation army.
and i brought them around, and had the chance to go on the singapore flyer, ride the river taxi again, and visit those tourist places.
what else did i do? hmm. i think sleep alot?
but i think what was the best part, though it was miserly small compared the the whole time pst greg and eliz was here, was the word of encouragement that he spoke personally to me.
also things to note, my sister xf is back from laos with a whole bunch of interesting stories.
wendy's halfway through her taiwan trip with qinghui. think i'll get to eat some col taiwanese food when she's back.
weijian's still alive. haha. and going to guitar hunting sometime this week.
who else? erm, jess seems dead. haven heard from her in quite a long time. considering the fact she used to be asking me tons a week about cell group.
Destiny's music director asked me to lead worship next week. but i feel i'm not ready yet. i just wanna stick to drums for the moment.
had japanese spicy miso noodles for dinner yesterday at raffles city basment. it was swell! incredible food. and it's so interesting because when there's no customers, all the staff will be standing inside the stall facing front, even the cooks and manager. and when you are eating, they will of course serve you, but the rest who have nothing to do will be looking front. hahaha. but the food, although a pretty small selection compared to other restaurants, is really good to eat with generous portions. its the stall beside pizza house, and opposite new balance.
another thing is that i know of what some person is talking, but i just can't come to agreement. 8 is just too much. And older is another thing that i just cannot accept. despite the immediate connection made since long ago. looks similar, but just not the same. i'm sorry, i just cannot come to accept. but i think what's important is that i'm bringing plenty of great friends and guidance and platform to help and that understands person situations. that's what I dont want to sabotage. I really hope person is able to find help that really helps. and in turn find destiny.
On a different note, celibacy is hard to accept, or in my case unacceptable. so i choose to enter marriage and relationship with much optimism, despite all the bad news around. but I still trust God. isn't that faith?
I will return to drumming and guitaring and worship. and also meeting people I have never met. life, though confusing and tough at times, will be fun and fulfilling for me!
You won! 1:08 PM
Wednesday, March 05, 2008
I found this video on youtube to be very interesting and well done. It's titled "kirby and the Love Equation" where kirby is a young maths wiz.
You won! 11:48 PM
My Zone supervisor, Yilun, and har boyfriend Eugene. It was their wedding few weeks back, but sadly, I missed it. Nevertheless, when I saw this video, it really touched my heart. What a beautiful couple! One of the happiest and most gorgeous weddings I've ever seen. You can see the real joy and happiness from the start till end.
why is it like a dark hole once again? deep and dark. where's the light?
What is life? what is acceptance? what is friendship? what fills that emptiness? what brings satisfaction? fulfillment?
so many questions and yet none of them fully describes the situation.
I guess God is what I hang on to. goes beyond my intelligence, because He created me. it's like hanging on to nothing, yet something is there that holds on to you. beyond understanding, yet so powerful and so real.
You won! 11:26 PM
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
I got this in my email just today, and i find it very true from a guy's point of view. You've seen many times from the Girl's side, now here's one from the guys. GIRLS, its for you to read, and be successful in your rlns. Guys too. haha.
Guy's point of view
This is very cute!
And even written by a guy!
You might agree with it, but
when it actually happens 99% of girls don't realize it 'til it is too late
and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who will take notice.
From a guys point of view:
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till he morning.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.
Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.
LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON'T 'FEEL BAD'
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say 'thank you.'
Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the
need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.
See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'.
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand im not sayin i wouldn't like it either.
Girls: I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE.> DITCH HIS SORRY DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..........AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!
*****Give the nice guys a chance*****
Holdin Hands- Girls : If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times. Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.
Cuddling- Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold. Guys : Automatically move closer to her.
Movies- Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.
Loving each other- Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it.
Laying below the stars- Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. Now make a wish about something you would like to happen Between you and your crush....
